Wouldn`t it be wonderful if we could all be a little more gentle with each other, and a little more loving, have a little more empathy, and maybe we’d like each other a little bit more.
Empathy is one of the main skill for a wannabe design thinker (if you don’t know what is design thinking click here ). But not only, actually it is one of the main skill that are required in these latest years by organizations.
What is empathy?
Empathy is “The ability to understand and share the feelings of others.
(Oxford dictionaries)
You could easily see empathy as an art: the art of immerging oneself inside the mind and the life of others to understand which are their true, and maybe latent, needs.
It could be used in every situation in life, from work to love but we will stop at the first one, even if my sentimental life could be very interesting for me, I doubt it could be the same for you.
So, let’s talk about empathy in work. I really think that being able to understand your customer could give a not-so-little extra kick for your company.
A brief example
Think about different business units in a company, trying to understand each other’s problems and limitations would help them achieve better results. Sometimes in a company, like in a love relationship (damn I must stop speaking about love), there are a lot of agreements. Most of the time these compromises are seen as stepbacks in order to achieve 3 steps forward later.
Success for a company means creating value for shareholders and stakeholders or, better said, making customers happy. Which better way to make customers happy if not by understanding them in the best way possible fulfilling not only their current needs but also their future ones?
Now take a look at the table above that represents a study in which researchers studied the amount of “empathy” in each company. The interesting part is that, the four companies at the top have a strong technological soul (facebook, google, linkedin and netflix) and this fact made me question myself “Is it something random?”
The answer was pretty clear: NO, and you know why? Because of DATA.
How could you get to know people you never met? Through what they share on social(facebook, linkedin), what are their interests (netflix) or what are their problems (Google).
Thanks to big data and analytics software you will be able to generate a sort of “artificial empathy”. Knowing these topics means knowing what, how and why offer something to someone. People are happy to spend/invest money in services that are, or seem to be, tailored-made just for them.
Do you remember Blockbuster? (Whoooo??). Blockbuster was one of the best company worldwide during ‘90s with a simple business model: it was a big video store where you could rent movies.
But a problem arose:
Let me ask you a question: “what could be better than going by car to a blockbuster store and rent a movie (and then bringing it back 3 days later)?”
Answer: “selecting and watching the movie directly from your couch”
Did they see that need coming? Probably yes. Did they do anything? Definetely no. Why?
“We have a solid business and nothing will make us collapse” (a probable cit.). If they would have listen what their customer really wanted, Blockbuster would have written an entire different story but, you know, Netflix happens.
Netflix tried to warn Blockbuster, proposing a partnership to the latter. Unfortunately blockbuster laughed Netflix over and….. You now know the story.
I’ll try to give you some quick-win tips that will make you a better empathetic person.
(Un)fortunately, empathy is just the first step to success, as Jonathon Colman stated in one of his article:
Anyhow I’m an engineer: every now and then I have to put an equation
Think + listen + watch + learn + act = Emphaty
Emphaty + Creativity = Empathyvity
Empathyvity = Success
Understanding people means foresee the future.
Marco Carniel
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